When people think of Chinese Astrology, they often think of personality traits, career directions, or even lucky years. But what if I told you that your BaZi (Four Pillars of Destiny) chart can reveal far more intimate truths—your romantic patterns, hidden desires, even your sexual energy?
Yes, your chart holds deep clues not only about who you love, but how you love — and sometimes, how you sabotage love entirely. In this post, I want to show you some key indicators that often surprise my clients. They never imagined that
sexuality, magnetism, and even erotic challenges could be so clearly seen in something as seemingly abstract as a
birth chart.
So if you've already downloaded your BaZi chart, here are the signs to look out for. Let’s dive into the secret language of desire — through the lens of Chinese metaphysics. Let's just pick some of the most common markers:
1. Rabbit–Rooster Clash: Explosive sexual magnetism
When the Rabbit and Rooster meet in a chart, it ignites a natural sexual tension and charisma. This isn’t necessarily about love or connection — it's pure "animal" magnetism. People with this clash often exude a strong aura of allure without even trying. Their presence can be electric… and dangerously tempting. Unless they learn this marker, they can struggle.
2. Eating God (direct polarity of Output element): The symbol of secret desires
The Eating God (EG) element is the most sensual and indulgent of all BaZi stars. While it often represents artistic talent and refined taste, in the context of relationships, it speaks to hidden, unspoken desires. Those with strong EG placements often crave freedom in expression and may lead double lives when it comes to sexuality. It's a placement of secret fantasies — not always acted out, but deeply felt.
3. Indirect Wealth in Men’s charts: The Playboy signature
In a man's chart, Indirect Wealth (IW) can be a flashing red light of romantic excess. This element represents excellent financial opportunity — but in relationships, it can signal multiple partners, high temptation, and infidelity risks, especially if commitment comes too early. IW isn’t “bad” — but it tells us that this soul came to explore variety and learn restraint through experience.
4. Rat–Rooster Destruction: Passion meets risk
This combination carries a potent sexual charge — but comes with a warning. When the Rat and Rooster interact, there’s often a reckless edge to desire. It heightens libido, yes — but can also bring vulnerability to STDs and sexual addictions. These charts may also show susceptibility to alcohol, drugs, gambling, and impulsive sexual behavior.
5. Peach Blossom Stars (PB): The Flirt's best friend
If you’re curious about how flirtatious or seductive your partner might be, check their chart for Peach Blossom stars. These stars make people highly attractive, charming, and magnetic to others. With too many PB stars, it can be hard to resist temptation. People with strong Peach Blossom energy often never stay single — they’re the life of the party, effortlessly drawing attention wherever they go.
6. The Mirror of Desire: Rabbit – Rat Punishment
This is a deeply romantic and idealized connection, often marked by intense longing and admiration. When someone has this combo in their chart, they tend to put their partners on a pedestal—which can lead to disappointment. It's a placement of love - dreaming — falling hard and fast, often before reality kicks in.
7. Horse Self-Punishment in Eating God: Pleasure Without Limits.
This is the “no boundaries” category. When the Horse creates a self-punishment configuration within an Eating God profile, we see someone who indulges fully in pleasure—sex, food, luxury, experience — until it hurts. These charts are walking contradictions: craving beauty and bliss, but often suffering physically or emotionally as a result. Think burnout, hangovers, even addiction to intense romantic or sexual highs.
8. Yang Fire Meets Yin Metal: Explosive Chemistry
This elemental interaction is fireworks. When one person has Yang Fire and the other Yin Metal, an electric sexual charge is generated. But it’s not just physical — it often triggers emotional connection and even philosophical reflections on love. This pairing can stir deep desire, even obsession. The attraction is almost chemical — just one meeting can spark intense longing.
9. 7 Killings in Women’s Charts: Wild, forbidden passion
When a woman has strong 7K (Seven Killings) energy, it often reveals raw, primal sexuality. These charts may show unconventional or taboo experiences—sex in public places, open relationships, or exploring power dynamics. Sometimes it can also represent experiences with sexual trauma or healing through sexual expression. This placement is often misunderstood, but it speaks to a deep need to experience rather than repress.
It's Written in Your Chart — But Not Set in Stone
The truth is, Chinese Astrology doesn’t predict how you will live out your desires — it shows you the themes, temptations, and lessons your soul came to experience.
Understanding these aspects in your chart doesn’t mean you’re doomed to repeat them. It means you have the awareness to choose consciously.
You can honor your sensual self, without letting it rule you.
You can love deeply, without losing yourself.
You can channel your desires in ways that empower, rather than entangle you.
The more you understand your own “romantic blueprint,” the more authentic, magnetic, and liberated your love life becomes.
If this post sparked your curiosity, I encourage you to explore your BaZi chart more deeply. The signs are already there—you just have to learn how to read them. And oh my God, so many haven't even been mentioned in this post.
With love
Suzanna
