Breaking free from old patterns: The essence of my work with the Four Pillars of Destiny
There comes a moment in life when we look around and realize that we’ve been walking in circles. Different faces, different places — yet the same inner struggles keep coming back. That moment, for many, is a turning point. For me, it became my calling, back in 2016.
Years ago, when I first encountered the Four Pillars of Destiny — an ancient Chinese metaphysical system — I was both skeptical and curious. How could a person’s birth data reveal so much about their patterns, behaviors, strengths, and challenges? But as I dived deeper, studied the symbols, and observed how these patterns played out in real life, I was stunned. Not because they were set in stone, but because they revealed the programs we unconsciously repeat.
These programs — patterns we inherited, learned, or developed as coping mechanisms — are not our fault. But they become our responsibility once we see them. And this is the heart of what I do through my consultations and teachings: I help people become conscious of their patterns so they can finally make different choices.
What we don't see, controls us
One of the most powerful things the Four Pillars reveals is the repeating cycle of a person's inner dynamics. For example, someone may continually attract unavailable partners. Another might always sabotage career progress just when success is within reach. At first glance, these seem like bad luck or coincidence. But the birth chart tells another story — one of
internal scripts silently running the show.
Once we identify these scripts, something incredible happens: we gain the ability to interrupt them.
We stop reacting automatically and start responding intentionally.
We learn to ask: “Is this really my truth, or is it a pattern I’ve inherited?”
This is where
contemplation comes in — not just thinking, but deep inner observation. It's the practice I encourage with every client and student. To sit with the information, to breathe through it, to feel the truth of it in their body. Contemplation is the gateway to awareness. And awareness is the beginning of transformation.
Choosing consciousness over conditioning
What makes this work so meaningful for me is witnessing people evolve. I still receive messages — sometimes years later — from those I’ve had personal consultations with. They write to tell me how the insights they gained continue to guide their lives. How something finally “clicked” in their relationship, or how they faced a difficult time with more clarity and self-trust. They often read the e-books all over again to gain more understanding. I bet you this is crazy, how different the knowledge is received by the mind in different states!
One recurring theme I see is the
7K period — a challenging time in a person’s life that often brings emotional turbulence, conflict, and breakdowns in relationships or career. Many feel lost or overwhelmed. But through the lens of the Four Pillars, this difficult time also carries a sacred purpose:
it’s a call to grow.
Helping someone rise during these challenging times is my biggest task — and my greatest honor.
It’s not about pretending everything is okay. It’s about holding up a mirror and helping them see their strength, even when they feel broken. It’s about teaching them how to rewrite their story.
My Mission is to awaken and empower
If there’s one thing I want every person who visits suzannamester.com to take with them, it’s this:
You are not your past. You are not your patterns. You are a creator of new possibilities.
The Four Pillars of Destiny is not about fate controlling you. It's a map. Once you learn to read that map — and bring light to the darker, repeating areas — you gain the power to steer your life in a conscious direction.
This is the essence of my work.
It’s not just astrology. It’s
transformation through understanding.
It’s not about avoiding difficulties, but learning to grow through them with grace.
It’s about believing that you can choose a different path — one that aligns with who you truly are.
There’s no magic button to escape pain or difficulty. But there is something even more powerful:
awareness. And from awareness, we find choice. And from choice, we create freedom.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re repeating the same story — in love, in work, in your inner world — I invite you to pause. Take a breath. Look deeper. There’s always a reason. And there’s always a way forward.
Together, through this sacred tool of the Four Pillars, and through the art of contemplation, you can learn to walk a new path — one that you consciously choose.
And I’ll be here to guide you. Start with the e-books, that are fully personalised. Start with yourself.
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With love,
Suzanna
